Kinsey

A film starring Liam Neeson as the sex researcher Alfred Kinsey was released in Britain a week ago. The subtitle to the film, ‘let’s talk about sex’, acknowledges the key role Kinsey played in lifting the lid on sexual taboos and behaviour that America had previously been reluctant to discuss. My intent in this doctrine slot is not to critique the film. I haven’t seen it and have no intention of doing so. It’s simply to arm ourselves with some information about this man and his work so that we can get involved in any discussion that might perhaps take place at work, the pub or in the gym.

Kinsey’s Background

Alfred Kinsey was born into a Methodist family with an authoritarian Father and a withdrawn Mother. His childhood was miserable and one in which dating, Sunday newspapers and movies were deemed inappropriate for the people of God. It was certainly not an environment in which to learn much about God’s good gift of sex. In 1938 he became a zoologist at the University of Indiana, specialising in the study of insects. He later married a chemistry student Clara McMillen. The early days of marriage were beset by sexual problems. Ignorant about such matters they sought a scientific solution through the advice of a straight talking gynaecologist. This convinced Kinsey that students were not getting sufficient information on an important subject he undertook to provide a course about the facts of life. Emboldened by his success Kinsey sought and secured funding and began a nation-wide survey on sexual behaviour. Instead of letting people assume what normal sexual activity should be he was determined to find out what people were actually doing. He’s most famous for his two publications Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male (1948) Sexual Behaviour in the Human Female (1953) These became known as the Kinsey report. The key findings from his research were 85% of white American men had had pre-marital sex 50% had had extra-marital sex 69% had visited prostitutes 37% of men had had at least one homosexual experience 10% of men were more or less exclusively homosexual He concluded that Americans were far more sexually adventurous than anyone had previously been willing to admit.

There are 3 things however that the film will not make clear and undermine the version of events prominent in the media.

1. His research methods were seriously flawed

In the film Kinsey is portrayed as a man who undertook serious scientific research

He used non-representative samples.

It’s true that he took a large sample of American males. However, they were hardly representative of the population as a whole. As one reviewer put it, ‘people who will willingly talk to a total stranger about their sexual behaviour from normal marital intercourse to sex with babies and animals can hardly be considered representative’. But 26% of his sample were sex offenders, an additional 25% were also in prison and promiscuous males and sexual deviants were also over represented. A raft of recent surveys have concluded that the number of homosexual males is nearer 1%.

He was complicit in the sexual abuse of babies, toddlers and other children.

He eagerly solicited information from a serial child molester and attempted to pay him for further research. The Kinsey report contains detailed statistics on the nature of orgasms among 929 male subjects, ranging in age from 5 months to 14 years of age. The obvious question is how these figures were obtained. Judith Reisman a critic of Kinsey has provided evidence that Kinsey recruited and trained paedophiles to conduct research on his behalf, and that their contact with the children concerned sometimes took place over months and even years.

2. His personal behaviour was sexually deviant

From a very early age he had engaged in deviant sexual acts. Kinsey engaged in homosexual acts, serial adultery and in sado-masochistic self-abuse. He encouraged his wife to participate in extra marital affairs. He encouraged and recorded others involved in similar activities. By the time of his report he had begun conducting and participating in sexual experimentation with his staff and in the filming of hundreds of people. Although the film doesn’t hide the tryst involving his wife and a fellow researcher it presents this as a unique event. It was however one of countless episodes.

In the film Kinsey is portrayed as a man of science forced into the study of sexual behaviour by his own marital difficulties and the ignorance and superstition of society. But it ignores a more obvious motivation for Kinsey’s research. Because of his own preference for sexual experimentation he had strong reasons for pursuing sex research and for demonstrating that there was no such thing as deviancy. Al Mohler, the American Theologian and Broadcaster has written, ‘According to this popular and pervasive mythology, Alfred Kinsey was a scientist who brought his rigorous scientific skills and objective scientific interests to the study of human sexuality. The real Alfred Kinsey was a man whose own sexual practices cannot be safely described to the general public and whose interest in sex was anything but objective or scientific’.

3. His abiding legacy is destructive immorality

In the film Kinsey is depicted as a man who forced a sexually repressed and censorious society to acknowledge that things happened in bedrooms. He lifted the covers on the sexual habits of Americans and in so doing made the activity that he reported normal. As a secular journalist put it, ‘people who see the sexual revolution as a giant step forward and those who see it as the beginning of America’s descent into moral degeneracy agree on one thing: Alfred Kinsey was the man who got it all started’. It’s probably worth saying that the reticence of our Grandparents generation and perhaps that of our parents to talk about sex has not been hugely helpful. In that sort of environment misinformation, speculation and confusion can flourish. But in reality are we better off as a result?

He undermined Christian morality

Kinsey once wrote to one of his associates, ‘the whole army of religion is our central enemy’. He knew what he was doing. His biographer James Jones writes, ‘He wanted to undermine traditional morality, to soften the rules of restraint and to help people develop positive attitudes towards their sexual needs and desires. Kinsey was a crypto-reformer who spent every waking hour attempting to change the sexual mores and sex offender laws of the United States’.

He encouraged progressive immorality

The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction is still in existence. All around us we see the effects of the sexual revolution. Half of marriages end in divorce, a quarter of the rising generation has been aborted and we’re swimming in sexual imagery and exploitation. Sex has been separated from love and marriage. As one writer put it, ‘Kinsey’s legacy is that he played a role in unleashing epidemic levels of STDs, rampant divorce, massive numbers of out or wedlock births, the breakdown of the family, abortion and the destruction of marriage’. That’s some legacy. But don’t expect to find any of that in the press.

How should we respond?

We ought to arm ourselves with the facts. You may want to get Pure Sex by Jensen and Payne available at the bookstall.

We ought to watch ourselves. Bare in mind these words from Galatians 6, ‘keep watch on yourself lest you too be tempted’. The sexual permissiveness of our society can inform our own understanding of what’s acceptable Christian behaviour more than God’s will in the Bible. We can use the extreme behaviour of others to play our own immorality on side and so we need to be careful.

We ought to pray for our world. We’re caught up in the whirlwind that he sowed. Our sexually superheated society is the place where we’re seeking to help mend people suffering the consequences of damaging sexual bahaviour. We’re all sexual sinners to one degree or another and we mustn’t be hypocritical and I suspect that praying preserves us from that.

Further Reading

  • Pure Sex, Payne and Jensen, Matthias Media
  • ‘Kinsey as He Really Was – What You Won’t See in the Movie’, A. Mohler, www.albertmohler.com

Halloween

I love this time of year because there’s so many exciting things happening.

What’s going on at the moment that you can think of?

Holidays, Fireworks, Birthdays, Halloween

Who can tell me what’s going to happen on Tuesday?

[present clues eg the colour black, a broom, the 31st October, a pumpkin

We’re going to think about Halloween

What sort of things will your friends do on Halloween?

Halloween is a night when lots of your friends may dress up as scary monsters, they may stay out later than usual and they may go round to other people’s houses asking for a treat.

Let me say there are some really good things about Halloween.

  • It’s great to dress up and pretend to be something else
  • It’s brilliant that God’s give us an imagination so that we can invent stories
  • It’s fun to go round to other people’s houses near where we live and share sweets and lots of other tasty food

But there’s another side to Halloween that we ought to think about. Halloween has become a day when people think about what frightens us.

What sorts of things frighten you?

What frightens most people are things like the dark, monsters, witches, evil spirits and the devil. Those sorts of things are scary. But God tells us in the Bible that we don’t need to be afraid of scary things for 3 very good reasons.

1. God made all the scary things

Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.

God tells us in the Bible that he made the universe, our world and everything in it. That means he even made the scary things. So there really is a devil and he has lots of evil spirits who do what he wants and not what God wants. Sometimes witches and goblins, monsters and the devil are pretend characters in books but the devil and evil spirits are not make believe. God has let an evil person come into the world who wants people to say no to God and say no to what God wants. We don’t know exactly why God let this happen but we know that He did. We’re not pretending.

But if we follow Jesus then we’re on his side. And because he made all the scary things he’s in control of them and he won’t let anything hurt us.

2. God is stronger than all the scary things

God tells us in the Bible that God is not scared by anything He’s made. In fact it’s the other way around. The scary things are afraid of God.

Mark 2:25 Jesus told the evil spirit, "Be quiet and come out of the man!" 26 The spirit shook him. Then it gave a loud shout and left.

Every time that Jesus met an evil spirit it screamed and ran away from him. Jesus even met the devil a few times and when he did the devil tried to get him to do what God didn’t want him to do but he couldn’t. The devil must have thought he’d won when he got Jesus killed on the cross. But he couldn’t have been more wrong. God sent Jesus to die for us on the cross so that we be forgiven and belong to God. And so the devil loses. He doesn’t get what he wants which is to make us God’s enemies because of Jesus we can be God’s friends.

If we follow Jesus then we’re on his side and Jesus showed that God is more powerful than any scary thing.

3. God will get rid of all the scary things

God tells us in the Bible that one-day God will get rid of all the scary things. In heaven there won’t be anything that makes us afraid.

Revelation 21:10 Then the devil who fooled them will be thrown into the lake of fire and burning sulphur. 

One day Jesus will come back and send the devil away from us forever and ever and so there’ll be nothing left to scare us.

If we follow Jesus then we’re on his side and he’s going to take us to heaven where there will be no scary things.

Conclusion

So even though lots of people might be thinking about the things that frighten them on Tuesday night we don’t have to be scared because even though there really is a devil Jesus is more powerful than him and has beaten him on the cross. If there’s more that you want to find out why not ask your Dad & Mum. Dads and Mums, if you’d like I can recommend some reading if that would be helpful.

Halloween

Tuesday night is Halloween. I thought I’d give you some of my thoughts on this event. They’re offered as a starting point in an ongoing discussion.

1. Halloween is commercially significant

In the US it’s the second most popular holiday and it generates 4-6 Billion Dollars in revenue. In the UK it’s the third behind Christmas and Easter. Father Christmas and the Easter Bunny are holding Freddy Krueger at bay for the moment. But it’s changing.

2. Halloween is historically significant

The origins of Halloween date back over 2000 years to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain, a word that means the end of summer. This festival celebrated the end of harvest and the beginning of the Celtic New Year on November 1st. By 43AD the Roman Empire had conquered most of the Celtic regions and in the following 400 years the Roman festival of Feralia was incorporated into it. This was day in late October when the Romans commemorated the passing of the dead. By the 800s Christianity had spread into Celtic lands. In the 8th century Pope Boniface IV designated November 1st All Saints’ Day to honour those saints that didn’t have a special day of their own. You wouldn’t want anyone to feel left out! The Pope hoped to put a XN spin on the pagan Celtic festival with a church-sponsored holiday [after all it had worked with Christmas]. Over the years the festival became known as All Hallows and the night before was known as All Hallows Eve or Halloween.

3. Halloween is spiritually significant

I have no wish to be reactionary but I’ve got issues with Halloween. I’m not about to mount a campaign. I’m aware that Christianss have a reputation for the ‘spot it and stop it’ routine and I have no desire to strengthen that conviction. But to use an old Naval saying let me run these up the flagpole and see if anyone salutes them!

I’ve got issues with Halloween because

a. Halloween has become a time when wickedness is domesticated

I think the Bible allows a place for imagination, pretence and fantasy but Halloween allows elements from the dark side of spirituality to be accepted in mainstream culture. It’s become a holiday of cultural fascination with evil and the demonic. Evil is portrayed as innocent and fund. And it’s neither. We need to remember the wickedness of evil. The devil and his demons are real. We have a real spiritual adversary who seeks our destruction. Of course through our identification with Christ we have nothing to fear from an enemy that he’s already defeated. But nevertheless wickedness and evil ought to be exposed, opposed and loathed. But our approach may actually be encouraging fascination with something that’s ultimately damaging.

b. Halloween has become a time when we celebrate what scares us

Out of love for the vulnerable, particularly children we ought to protect them from things that frighten them. Walking into Woolworths to be confronted by hairy spiders, a witch’s mask and a giant bat is not most young children’s idea of fun. Anyone who’s had to calm a screaming child who’s woken in the middle of the night having a nightmare will know what damage these images can do. At least our films have classification guidelines that allow parents the freedom to make a decision but no such restraint is exercised at this time of the year. We may be strong enough to cope with the associations with evil without being tainted and we may be brave enough to cope with the frightening images but not everyone is. As Christians we should therefore limit our freedom in love for others and encourage others to do the same.

c. Halloween has become a time when we teach our children that extortion is acceptable

What else is trick or treat? We give people in our neighbourhood a choice between a rock and a hard place. It’s either ‘give me a treat’ or ‘I give you a trick’. Isn’t that what organised crime does?!

So, what could you do on Tuesday night when the local children come to your door escorted by their elder siblings or their parents? The following advice needs to be adapted to our personality and the age of the child on our doorstep! [see Evangelicals Now article by P. Hitchcock]

1. Comment on their outfits and say something positive about how much time and trouble they went to.

2. Ask, ‘who do you think is the most powerful spiritual being in the world?’ and say no to all of their answers. Then ask them, ‘who do you think the devil is really scared of?’

3. Tell them that God once sent a baby from heaven to earth and when he grew up he scared the living daylights out of every evil spirit that he met. He even engaged in face to face combat with the devil and won. The devil thought he must have won when he was killed on a cross but it turned out that this was the killer blow that led to his complete and utter defeat and will lead to his future destruction.

4. Give them a sweet, hand out a tract like the one entitled ‘Halloween … What a Scream’ from the Good Book Company and tell them to come to church if they want to find out more!

Sources

  • http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/christianity/holydays/halloween.shtml
  • A. M. Rearick III, ‘Matters of Opinion: Hallowing Halloween: Why Christians should embrace the devilish holiday with gusto – and laughter’ 
  • R. Mouw, ‘Making Real Decisions About Halloween’, 
  • A. Mohler, Christianity and the Dark Side: What About Halloween?’ 
  • A. Mohler, ‘The Return of Witchcraft - Ancient Paganism in a Modern Form’, 
  • D. Harris, ‘Halloween … Harmless Fun or Spiritual Threat’ Association of Christian Teachers Web Site
  • P. Hitchcock, ‘Halloween It’s A Scream’,